Today my hubby and I went shopping for Mia’s birthday. My baby is going to be 4 next weekend! Sometimes it blows my mind how fast she grows and how smart and mature she is for such a young child. I think we may get just as excited for her birthday as she does.
We got her some wonderful goodies, including her first big-girl bike! I can’t wait to see her face.
On the way home from our shopping venture my hubby and I talked quite a bit about birthdays. He mentioned that there were several from his past that turned out bad. I agreed that I had some birthdays in my past that aren’t worth remembering either. We then started discussing all the parents we know that purposely choose not to make a big deal out of birthdays. To them it is just another day, but nothing really special. This actually hurt my heart. I couldn’t imagine not making a big deal about my kids’ birthdays. I want to celebrate the days they were born. They are awesome kids that have been real blessings in our lives. Their birthdays are anything but just another day. It’s not about money, either. We don’t spend a ton of money on presents. I always do a cake from scratch. We do a family activity of their choice on their birthday and they decided what to have for dinner. But, the point is that we celebrate their existence. I always want them to have happy memories of their birthdays. I don’t ever want them to think that it is not worth the extra time and effort to make a big deal about the day they were born. They are certainly worth more than that.
I really want to know and understand why some parents don’t think it is a special day.













